tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26443599993825680672024-03-06T07:53:22.236+07:00Journey Of LifeThis Blog will tell you everything that I like and dislike. All of my experience, about christianity, music, internet, personal life and everything.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-34034782977979674072019-09-09T14:32:00.001+07:002019-09-09T14:32:57.882+07:00So.. SadToday I read a posting from quora. I feel sorry for what this woman's experiencing for decades.<span class="fullpost">
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She's manipulated by a man that turns to be her husband. Not just her, but 18 women also manipulated for their body while they've already married.</div>
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I just knew how foolish women can become when they are seduced with sweet words and gifts. Even when their man is proven toying them, they still forgive them after that man plead sorry and crying (of course it's just fake).</div>
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You need God to find good soulmate and not just trusting your own understanding</div>
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I'll copy her story to this post</div>
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I hate my husband but I still live with him. For my kids are in a very volatile age. 9 and 13. I smile at him when i look at his face everyday but deep down i cry every night when i sleep next to him.</div>
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Mine was a love marriage. We met at work and dated for about a hear and half before our parents asked us if we wanted to get married. Innocent and naive as we were just 23, we said yes. We just kissed before marriage, though we had a lot of opportunities to get intimate. I was so stupid that i never knew much about sex. I got pregnant in the first six months of marriage. There was not much internet those days (2005) and i also never had friends who would talk about love or sex. Love marriage was still a taboo in my family and i was the first one to break that record and to even marry to a Punjabi.</div>
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My son was born just a week after my first wedding anniversary. Though we didn’t want a baby so early, everybody including my husband was very happy. But motherhood doesn’t come easy. I was working full time, had an infant, aspiring MBA student and a nagging mother-in-law at home who expected me to do all the chores. My health started to suffer due to lack of sleep and after too much struggle I left my job. I decided to get back to work after a break of 9 months and also moved into a separate house with my son and husband.</div>
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When my son turned one, i realized he needed more of my time so i decided to work on night shifts. My husband was working during day and i was working nights. Since my son was too young, he became my priority. My husband felt neglected. To save time, we moved closer to work. Now our office was just 5 min drive from our house or 10–15 min walk and we had our offices in the same building. While I was busy working and taking care of my son at home during day, my husband was having fun in his office. For next four years, i had to undergo at least one termination of pregnancy every year because my husband didn’t want the second child. When my son was about 3 and 1/2 yr, I got pregnant again and decided to continue with it though my husband didn’t want a second child yet. And that made him angry. He decided to take revenge from me. How dare did i go against him. He started meeting women as a single or as someone who’s undergoing divorce.</div>
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I did not know what he was doing in his office. He started coming back late from office citing work and onshore calls and what not. I was on maternity leaves when he mentioned that he would be late since he had a party in the office. My daughter was just 28 days old. It was 3:00 AM when i called him, he messaged stating party is still on. When he didn’t pick my call, i called a colleague who told me that party got over at 11:30 PM. That was the second time when I caught him lying. I messaged him the same and he cam back home and said Sorry. I wished I had listened to my mind that night. I caught him lying first time when a girl from his office called me and i heard him saying “I love you” to her in the background. On confrontation he told me that it was joke but later i got to know that she was his gf while i was his fiancee.</div>
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Anyways, i forgave him that night. Fast forward, we moved to US in 2012 when my son was 7 and daughter was about 3. He was alone in the US for about 6 months before i moved in here with kids. And his mother had to go through the toughest times of her life back in home country, fighting some legal battles when i was by her side all the time. (He told his roomies here in US that he’s single and he referred to us as his relatives) I left my job (I was a Manager in an MNC and earning a decent salary) and moved to US, Even his best friends here did not know that he was married and had kids. Anyways, we lived in a garage turned into a two room house for about a yr and half before i got a job here and finally we moved into an apartment. My husband had the opportunity to travel through his work to a lot of places, domestic and international. When i started to work, once again i am earning more than him (i was earning more than him when we got married)</div>
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My husband showed love to kids in his spare time, though he was never there to send kids to school. He would work late nights and would wake up late in the morning unless he has an office call. He would show love to me like normal and we had normal sex life. May of 2015, i needed the apartment lease documents to be shared as an address proof to get my daughter admitted to the school. I asked him to share the documents with me. Accidentally, he shared a folder which had pictures of his honeymoon with his girlfriend from Singapore. I was shaken to the core. She was a divorcee whom he met when i was pregnant with my daughter in India in 2010. He offered her a job and also told her that he’s also going through a divorce. They dated for a while and while he moved to US, she moved to Singapore for a job. He went to Singapore in Aug 2013 from US citing office work, but he went there at his own expense to spend time with her. Poor girl, i saw the messages where she was ready to accept my kids as her own not knowing that my asshole husband was just playing with her. He promised her to bring her to US on his sponsorship but all fake promises. Later she saw me posting pics with him on FB then she understood that there’s no divorce and disconnected with him. When i got to know of this in may 2015, i contacted that girl and felt sorry for her My husband cheated on me and also on her. I decided to separate my savings from my husband since i learned that he barely has any savings though for a really long time i was not even working and he earned more than me. I also asked for divorce and got the forms. He never signed or filled those forms. 5 months went by and we had to go back to India to attend a wedding. We went back together pretending that nothing happened. Returned to US after a month in early Jan 2016. Things again started to become normal. My husband knows how to make a woman happy. He would bring flowers, gifts and show love and always ask me to go for shopping and all. I really got off him after i discovered this girl from Singapore but i thought it was long distance and may be just a fling so i decided to give my marriage another try.</div>
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Everything was coming back to normal again. Fast forward feb 2017, I was out with the family to celebrate my anniversary and kids birthday in UK. Just minutes after landing in London when i turned on my phone. I had messages missed calls from all my family. There is an fb account who’s sending friend requests to all my family and office colleagues with my husband in the pic with a girl. The account had pictures of this girl with him at various locations in India, LA, SFO, her home, malls, shopping, kissing, smooching, cutting birthday cakes, singing songs, swimmings and what not. Once again, I lost the ground from under my feet. I accepted the friend request from her. She was my husband’s current gf from local area who he had been fooling around since late 2014. He met her as a single in Dec 2014 and ofcourse the girl fell in love with him since the first meeting. They had made trips to Napa and NY in the very first month of meeting. He helped her get rid of her virginity. She told him that she’s a one man woman and he showed her the dreams of marriage (while still married to me and fathering my kids). They talked for hours every night, he sent her a good night kiss and a song for every morning to wake up with. It took me three whole nights to read there messages. One monday night i didn’t sleep at all and interesting i didn’t feel sleepy during the day at all. I looked back at all the conversations he had with her since 2014. Every evening when he was going to gym after work, he was going to meet her at her home. There were days when he told he’s wfh in office but spent the entire day at her place. They were so much in love. I could feel the passion and desperation to meet from their messages. They met everyday, On Saturdays, my H would wake up at 11:30 and come out of his room ready to leave the house in the name of playing badminton. Later only i got to know about their plans of meeting out for brunch on Saturdays.</div>
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Funny or weird, she got to know that he’s married around the same time when i got to know of his gf from Singapore in May 2015. This asshole cried in front of her stating that he’s undergoing a divorce and fighting for the custody of his children whom he love dearly just so that he could continue to have sex with her. She didn’t give in easily and decided to meet only after divorce is done which he promised should not take more than 6 months as per CA law. Being in love, it was difficult for her to not see him, she started following my every pic on fb and every dp on whatsapp. My H deleted his fb account and all references to him and us much before meeting this girl. He made a point to not get clicked with me in any pic. He started meeting her again on the promise that he’ll be divorced in 6 months and he’s asking his lawyer to expedite the process. ofcourse, since now she knew that he’s married she was not giving in to him that easily. Yet, he persuaded her every time using his skills. He continued to use her, abuse her all of 2016 and she trusted him hoping for a future with him. She denied to go to Europe with him until he got this resolved on an office trip. The bastard called another gf from India to be his ally in Europe to have fun. Unaware of his true side, early Jan 2016, she asked to meet his lawyer. That’s when he mentioned that it’s getting difficult for him to get the custody and hence the divorce (which was not even there). He produced fake divorce documents, copying info from internet to convince her. He started ignoring her calls. He asked to meet just once a week until divorce is resolved. In Feb 2017, when i was going to London, i updated my whatapp status to reflect the same. She saw it. And when his phone was also not reachable for long, she understood it. That’s when she created the new fb account, posted all their travel and pictures of good times and send a friend request to all in the family. I was so ashamed to see those pictures. I spoke with that girl at length that night. I feel sorry for her. She loved him so much only to get betrayed in the end. I am just living with him. I don’t even like him.</div>
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Our London vacation was such an eye opener. I told her and my H that i do not want to come in between them but she didn’t want to see his face. I still had to bear with him. Upon my return, i met this beautiful young lady. She’s also a Manager in a big tech firm in this silicon valley. She shared all the pictures and the messages from day 1 of their meeting in dec 2014. It took me three days to read everything. I started at 10:00 PM on Monday night and it was 7:00 AM on tuesday and i was only half done. I was not sleepy at all though. I woke up kids and sent them to school. Took an off from work that day and read through the rest.</div>
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My kids heard me lose my control and screaming an crying for the first time. I was disgusted not because of what he did to me but what he did to her. He literally just used her to play with her body. So far this is the second woman i discovered who my husband had abused. I thought of paying a third party (some website and other sources) to get more information.</div>
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I figured he was arranging for his dates by offering jobs to good looking females on linkedin, he would look for female airbnb hosts if he’s visiting a city and ask for a dinner date citing he’s new to the area. He would meet them as single or divorcee whatever would earn him a fuck. I discovered that he has used and abused at least 18 women and they all left him after discovering his lies. There were times when he was sleeping with three different women around the same time. I have spoken to atleast 11 of them and have copies of emails and texts exchanged between him and them. He would not leave any opportunity, a co-passenger in plane, a colleague in office, every vagina is welcome.</div>
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It was very difficult for me to keep my cool when i discovered his truth and confronted him. He agreed to all his doings. My kids got shocked and cried when they saw us fighting. My daughter loves him. They don’t know his truth yet. My son is 13 now, very fragile age. He has promised me that he’ll never do it again. It doesn’t make any difference though. I am waiting for my kids to grow up before i tell it to them. To them, he is a hero. I don’t want to break their trust yet. And honestly, he’s good with them now (they are not high maintenance anymore :))</div>
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I am embarrassed to be his wife. His family knows everything, all the girls had gone but I am stuck with him. I love my kids. I hate myself when i look at him and smile. I do it so my kids could see us smiling together.</div>
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I feel so lonely. I am not able to make true friends since i am afraid that anyone who would know this side of him would not like to stay in touch with me or my family. I don’t talk to my old friend anymore since they all know his truth.</div>
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<b>Reply</b>- Thanks everyone for reading through my blabber.</div>
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As someone rightly commented, i needed to vent out. I am absolutely open to divorce. It’s just that I have tried it twice in the past, got the forms, filled and signed and waited for him to sign. But it never went beyond that wait. He doesn’t want to let me go. Since I’m earning more than him, i would not get any alimony or child support even if i keep the kids (that’s what a friend has told me). And i don’t have the energy to fight for it.</div>
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He’s a great talker. He’s fair and looks cute but I would not call him dashing. He looks like young Rishi Kapoor if you know this actor. Everyone around him loves him. And he shows love and care for everyone. He would always buy flowers and other gifts for all his gfs. In 2015, while dating this girl, he threw a surprise birthday party for me at my home and invited my college friends to make me happy. After few weeks, he took her to a cruise dinner in SFO for valentine’s evening. At home, he always help in chores. He has even cooked meals for his last gf at her home. That’s why she was madly in love with him. If not for his lies, he would make a perfect partner. The problem is that i don’t feel any love for him. If anything, i feel angry and disgusted because this last girl was madly in love with him and he just used her. I understand that he grew out of love for me, but he should not have done this to this girl.</div>
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Moreover, my kids adore him. He would tell them stories (he’s a great story teller) and jokes. He scold the kids if they scream at me or say anything mean or disrespectful(which kids usually do at this age). He also knows how to be strict with my son who’s in early teen and needs a lot of supervision.</div>
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Me and my husband don’t fight anymore. I just don’t talk to him much and try to avoid him as much as i can without it becoming obvious to kids. If i don’t agree to him, i just don’t answer him. I do whatever i want to do. We are a great couple in front of friends and kids. It’s just that heart connection is missing.</div>
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<b>Edit2: </b>Yes, I will leave him one day for sure. I like his absence. And I would never want to be in a serious relationship ever again. I don’t trust any men and actually I don’t trust anyone. And I don’t think I need one. I would love to make new friends and would not shy away from having friends for benefits.</div>
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Even if not by divorce, once my kids are out to college, I’ll leave the house. Here on quora itself I’ve read so many stories where kids had a bitter childhood because of divorced/step parents. My kids are happy kids and i want them to stay that ways as long as they are big enough to understand what happened. I will tell them all the truth with all the pictures and messages in front of their father once they are ready for it. For now, I don’t want my teenage boy to go undisciplined without his father and also lose his basketball buddy at home. My daughter loves him and I feel great when i see them giggling together on his stories which also happens quite often.</div>
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My husband did go for sex addiction therapy and HIV test last year when it all came out in open. Yes i did have a discussion with him then and I told him that I want him to leave. He cried and went down on his knees and said that he’ll never do it again and will always be there for kids and me. It didn’t lessen any of my hatred for him though. I do not trust his words and even actions. Yes, I do break down and cry out loud when i am alone. Fortunately, I don’t have too many of those moments. I got myself and kids enrolled into too many things in last two years to keep us occupied. I am a karate blue belt now, targeting to be black in next two years. I learnt skiing last year and went to blue slopes. Hopefully will do black diamonds this year. I try to cook new stuff in the kitchen, thanks to all those videos on social media. I am learning Spanish, take a small online class everyday. I also planted some vegetable saplings and spend my Sun mornings with my tools. I also do a lot of volunteering activities and my office work also keep me fairly busy.</div>
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Thanks to everyone for showing your love and concern. I just want to say that i haven’t yet made peace with what has happened to me and other girls because of him. In my mind, I am not doing justice to other girls by still letting him have a good family life, but if that’s what it takes to give my kids a peaceful and memorable childhood, then let it be.</div>
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This’s my first post on Quora and I am glad to read so many supportive comments. Thank you for all the guidance. Gratitude!</div>
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Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-9533731070429182832019-09-09T13:48:00.000+07:002019-09-09T13:48:25.168+07:00I need You moreI need You more..<br />
more than anything<br />
I need You more..<br />
more than words can say<br />
I need You more..<br />
than ever before<br />
I need You Lord<br />
I need You Lord<br />
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More than the air I breathe<br />
More than the song I sing<br />
More than my next heart beat<br />
More than anything..<br />
Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-1387715775150279212019-09-09T13:47:00.000+07:002019-09-09T13:47:07.193+07:00Loose and GainYou opened my eyes O God.<br />
With every single thing I loose, there's much more I gain.<br />
The more I loose, the more I gainGeorgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-68476511630019458502019-09-09T13:46:00.000+07:002019-09-09T13:46:38.545+07:00Diary feb '14FATHER my heart doesn't feel good right now. I don't know what happen. Feeling lonely and desolate from others, though I know I am not really alone.<br />
Father, I need your guidance. Please make my step firmer day after day. So I know that I have done the right things, decide correct choice and walk in right path. FATHER I need you so much during these days. Please don't let go of me, I can do nothing without you...<br />
Help me God, I know you love me and always hear my prayer. There were many times when I saw You doing miracles through me. All that I know, You love me and will always do. No matter what I have done in my life. Thank you so much.<br />
Don't ever let me go Holy Spirit. I am lost without <u>You</u>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-45355696104033681702014-01-14T02:44:00.003+07:002014-01-14T02:44:49.501+07:00Why We Yawn?Yawning for many of us (nearly 60 %) is undoubtedly contagious. One may not must watch another person performing it, yet imagining of that can easily induce an actual yawn. Precisely what is happening?<br /><br />Yawning is not really exclusive to humans only. A good number of pet animals may do this including certain pets or animals you may not guess for instance snakes and even fishes. Even so, the subject in this short article, contagious yawning is simply observed in mankind as well as chimpanzees. <br /><br />Sad to say, this is one of those particular mysteries in science not yet completely solved.<br /> Although there are many theories on the reason why people generated this particular behaviour, there is no final answer.<br /><br />To start with, lets get the misunderstandings aside. <br />Presently there is this endemic opinion that men and women yawn draw in whole lot more o2. However, this theory happens to be disproved due to a good experiment. As part of the experiment, places with different amounts of o2 concentrations have been prepared. (While the average O2 level is usually 21%, rooms with concentrations through 15% - 30% are all set, lets say). <br />People had been requested to sleep in in all these places for a while then all their yawning tendencies was basically viewed. Certainly no strong connection with the o2 degrees had been looked at as a consequence disproving the particular circumstances that many of us yawn to bring in a lot more o2.<br /><br />Among the established studies, by far the most notable one is that there exists an immediate connection with empathy. Yawning is really a method for the primitive individual to show empathy toward other people inside the tribe. <br /><br />
This particular concept is certainly supported through the fact that yawning is somewhat more contagious among close friends and even loved ones than with any unfamiliar person and even it's experienced more frequently within a particular species rather than across species. These particular experiments indicate that contagious yawning is actually a method persons evolved to help their very own social structure. This particular concept receives a lot more support through the experiment that autistic children (diagnosed with serious troubles appreciating others and empathizing with each other) do not express contagious yawning.<br /><br />An alternative possible principle lies in the fact that yawning is a method to cool off the brain. Human beings evolved to be able to mimic other people to ensure that every person's human brain stays cool.<br /> Though the last mentioned part is simply a speculation, the former is experimentally verified. Individual's yawning habits had been seen in locations with different temperature ranges and folks at the hotter place have a tendency to yawn even more. The actual test was initially finished with bags of ice on folks' head and this also effectively inhibited yawning completely. Thus, it really has been theorized that this behave of breathing in plenty of oxygen at the moment assists to cool off the brain.<br /><br />To conclude, while there is no conclusive cause, the possible reasons are actually human brain cooling as well as expressing empathy.<br />
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</span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-83027508125517320042013-11-27T14:47:00.000+07:002013-11-27T14:48:13.544+07:00How to Cope With Monthly Period Cramps<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEpsB5kxiwa_D1e-5NaA0DCuo23m4GTnSUL4BV0TXj9eaZIgFeQtLAsplIAKtANfUf3Ed7yBN-IvhmXbVMjcU3nEbasMLB2agYZMgRq_Uxwf44D14v5-BlplbM3fW-GM3zymtJdVfvlpIH/s320/what+causes+period+Cramps.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEpsB5kxiwa_D1e-5NaA0DCuo23m4GTnSUL4BV0TXj9eaZIgFeQtLAsplIAKtANfUf3Ed7yBN-IvhmXbVMjcU3nEbasMLB2agYZMgRq_Uxwf44D14v5-BlplbM3fW-GM3zymtJdVfvlpIH/s320/what+causes+period+Cramps.jpg" /></a></div>Getting month-to-month period is a good way to cleanse your own uterus and also vagina. However, quite a few women dislike their once a month menstruation due to the cramps. Cramp is one of the outward indications of month-to-month menstruation. This is certainly quite unpleasant and distressing for girls. In some cases, you will not be allowed to do the things that you must do as a consequence of cramps. What happens if you have an important appointment to attend to? Or perhaps if you need to attend an employment interview that will simply improve your life? Cramps can be mean but you can perform something to fix the issue.
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Below are great tips to help you with these problems:
- Engage in physical exercise yet choose the workout that you do. Stay away from workout routines that happen to be way too hard . on the middle area. Exercise may help increase the blood circulation and also o2 in the body. You might most likely experience much less cramps when you are on the habit of performing exercises regularly. Jogging as well as sprinting are usually ideal physical exercises for your physique.
- Always be on the lookout for what you take inside your body. Stay away from foods that are loaded with sugar and also excess fat. Furthermore, try eating food without red meat and also milk products first. They are said to be foods which induce menstrual cramps. As a substitute, consume foods like fresh vegetables, whole grains, and also fresh fruits.
- Avoid from liquor and also caffeine first. You might be capable to spend a few days those 2. Liquor and also caffeine induce menstrual cramps. They will constrict bloodstream and also induce pressure which in turn <a href="http://whatcauses.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-causes-cramps-during-periods.html">causes cramps during period</a>.
- Engage in soothing activities. Whenever your body is relaxed, it is possible to prevent period cramps. Enjoy a massage therapy or perhaps aromatherapy treatment. If you have nothing to accomplish, you could relax the whole day long. Sleep inside a bedroom using your favourite scent inside the vaporizer. This will make the room a lot more comforting. Also you can take a comfortable bath to relax your body.
- Cayenne spice will help alleviate menstrual cramps. Use red pepper cayenne onto your food. This specific type of pepper will help improve the circulation of blood. When the blood stream is ready to flow correctly, there'll be reduced pressure on your own body. You may also sip ginger root tea. This helps make your body system feel more relaxed.
These are typically the healthy techniques by which you possibly can alleviate menstrual pain. If you want to go on with your ordinary life perhaps even in your menstruation, then you certainly should certainly look for menstrual pain alleviation.
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</span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-5179411108737057962013-10-31T14:25:00.002+07:002013-11-30T22:22:50.496+07:00My New What Causes Blog Around 2 weeks ago, I started a new blog. This site try to explain to their reader about what causes everything, just as the name <a href="http://whatcauses.blogspot.com/">whatcauses.blogspot.com</a>. Till today, I still write about healthy articles, ie what causes bleeding gums, what causes yawning, what causes white vaginal discharge, etc. I don't know whether this blog could be very interesting in the years ahead, with many more topics instead of healthy topic. <br />
Of course I hope so, however based on my limited English skill, I am very limited to write the causes of everything, especially when the topic is not something that I understand well.<br />
However, I try to bring this blog to the maximum value for the readers. For a month ahead, I would try to focus to develop this blog. If after one month, this blog doesn't have enough visitors, I give up on this blog. As you may know, today It's very heard to bring English based site to move up on SERP. I don't know else what to do, I just want to do the best and give up the rest to God's hand. For all the reader, I present you this blog. If you have an idea about 'what causes' article that need to be written in this blog, please leave a comment below. In the future I want to write about tech stuffs like, what causes China to block Google, what causes lightning, what causes cactus to live on a dessert, etc. For today, I want to promote this article<br />
<a href="http://whatcauses.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-causes-white-vaginal-discharge.html">http://whatcauses.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-causes-white-vaginal-discharge.html</a> Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-39984698516681738042012-12-12T17:59:00.001+07:002013-09-17T02:29:33.608+07:00Trik Penerapan dan Pemeliharaan Lantai Kayu<br />
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Jika anda suka dengan tempat yang terkesan etnik, silahkan coba menggunakan lantai kayu. Hebatnya lagi, ciri-ciri alamiah kayu membuat kesan ruangan anda menjadi sejuk dan hangat. Kesan sejuk sewaktu musim panas, dan hangat sewaktu cuaca dingin. Dengan beranekaragam motif <a href="http://lantaikayuselgrid.com/" target="_blank">parket kayu</a> yang tersedia, anda tak bakal kesulitan menyesuaikannya dengan interior yang ada di ruangan anda. Selain bermacam-macam kelebihan lantai parket yang sudah disebutkan, perlu diperhatikan juga bahwa serangan rayap bersama dengan pergantian musim mampu merusak kayu. Keawetan lantai parket sangat ditentukan oleh jenis kayu dan juga cara pemeliharaannya. Parket kayu yang dirawat dengan rutin bakal menjamin nilai estetis dan keawetannya bakal awet sampai bertahun-tahun. <br />
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Interior ruangan dari bahan kayu wajib memenuhi ketentuan-ketentuan tertentu. Jenis kayu yang dapat digunakan untuk material rumah mestilah jenis kayu yang kebal dengan pergantian musim dan rayap, contohnya jenis kayu bangkirai, damar laut, jati, merbau. Jangan lupa, kayu punya sifat mudah mengembang, retak dan menyusut jika tinggi kadar airnya, maka agar tahan lama kayu yang dipakai wajib minim kadar airnya. <br />
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Ketika merakit lantai parket, anda wajib memperhitungkan luas ruang yang akan digunakan. Permukaan lantai yang luas memerlukan struktur lantai yang kuat pula. Jangan lupa untuk menyisipkan material lain sebagai dasar sebelum perakitan lantai parket yang berbahan dasar kayu lunak, tujuannya adalah agar air tak merusak kayu. Jika menggunakan jenis kayu yang keras semacam jati, cobalah untuk menggunakan paku atau lem tertentu. Selanjutnya, untuk meningkatkan estetika dan membuat lebih mudah pengaturan mebel, susunan lantai parket juga wajib memperhitungkan format ruangan. Parket kayu sangat tepat ditata horisontal jika tatanan ruang melebar dan sangat tepat ditata vertikal jika tatanan ruang memanjang. Perakitan lantai parket pun perlu memperhatikan tingkat kerapiannya. Jika ingin lantai kayu anda senantiasa awet dan nyaman, sebaiknya anda memastikan lantai kayu tersusun dengan rata dan rapi. <br />
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Agar senantiasa awet, lantai parket wajib mendapat perawatan tertentu. Pakailah vacuum cleaner atau sapu yang lembut untuk mengepel lantai parket. Sangat tak disarankan menggunakan air sabun atau kain basah sebab air bisa membuat kayu menjadi lembab yang akhirnya membuat kayu cepat rusak. Hal itu benar bahwa lantai parket sanggup membendung zat cair tetapi itu sekedar pada bidang teratas saja, karena itu andai saja ada zat cair yang tidak sengaja tumpah jangan menunda untuk membersihkannya. Pindahkan mebel anda jangan dengan menggeser, karena bakal membuat lecet lantai parket, pindahkan dengan mengangkatnya. Sekalipun cairan bisa membuat kayu lapuk, namun humiditas lantai parket perlu senantiasa dijaga, sebab itu, adalah tepat untuk menggosok lantai parket setiap 12 minggu sekali menggunakan zat cair pelembab tertentu. Pada setiap lantai parket kayu ada semacam kaitan untuk menyatukan parket kayu yang satu dengan parket kayu yang lain, kaitan ini dilapisi formalin. Manfaat formalin ini adalah menjadi penangkal serangan rayap, sebab rayap tak senang dengan formalin. Selain formalin, suntikan anti rayap setiap 3 tahun sekali bisa dipakai menjadi tambahan penangkal untuk memelihara lantai parket anda senantiasa awet.<br />
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<b>Diperlukan tukang ahli untuk merakit lantai parket</b><br />
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Merakit lantai parket membutuhkan keterampilan tertentu, tidak sembarang tukang bangunan bisa memasangnya dengan benar. Hal ini membuat lantai parket menjadi kurang sedap dilihat. Sense of art pada lantai parket bakal tampak jika tukang yang memasangnya peduli dengan nilai seni. Tingkatan warna, motif serat, serta ukuran parket kayu wajib diperhitungkan dengan cermat oleh tukang. Tukang ahli dan terlatih dalam perakitan lantai parket sanggup menghidupkan semua potensi nilai estetis dan lantai kayu. Jika berkaitan dengan lantai parket, percayalah kami ahlinya. Silahkan kunjungi <a href="http://lantaikayuselgrid.com/" target="_blank">website</a> kami untuk pemesanan atau bertanya-tanya lebih lanjut<br />
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<br />Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-78966065537407082162012-04-20T08:14:00.003+07:002013-10-31T14:43:33.261+07:00Peran & Kekuatan Seorang PerempuanUntuk: Seseorang yang aku sayangi dan aku hormati<span class="fullpost">
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I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man<br />
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Ayat ini bukan berarti perempuan tidak boleh berkotbah, karena pada Kis 18:26, jelas2 priscilla berkotbah dan mengajar apolos ttg FT. Ayat ini dikontekskan pada saat itu ajaran gnostic masuk ke efesus, dimana mereka mengakui bahwa eve diciptakan terlebih dahulu daripada adam, karena itu perempuan2 pada masa itu merasa dominan dan merasa lebih tinggi dari laki2 (dalam kepengurusan gereja sekalipun). Inilah yang dinasihatkan paulus kepada timotius, agar timotius tahu apa yang sedang dihadapinya di efesus.<br />
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Walaupun bukan berarti perempuan tidak boleh dipakai Tuhan dalam kepengurusan di gereja, tetapi aku percaya Paulus juga punya alasan yang kuat, untuk melarang perempuan2 memerintah laki2. Ini yang mau aku bahas<br />
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Kita tahu bahwa dibalik para pemimpin hebat di dunia selalu ada seorang perempuan yang luar biasa disampingnya, baik dalam dunia jasmani seperti abraham lincoln, ataupun dalam dunia rohani seperti George Muller dsb. Tapi aku ingin ambil contoh tentang kekuatan seorang perempuan dari Alkitab, yaitu simson dan delilah.<br />
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Mungkin simson dan delilah bukan contoh yang baik tentang peran seorang perempuan, tapi pastilah ini contoh yang baik tentang kekuatan seorang perempuan. Kita tahu Simson dikaruniai kekuatan yang luar biasa oleh Tuhan (dia membunuh 1000 org dgn tulang keledai, tentara US aja dak bisa), namun sayang kekuatannya yang besar itu berhasil ditaklukkan seorang wanita. Ketika perempuan Filistin merengek2 meminta simson memberitahukan jawaban teka-teki nya, yang dia tahu kalau teman2nya bisa menjawabnya maka simson harus membunuh 30org untuk mendapatkan pakaian kebesaran buat teman2nya. Belum lagi dengan Delilah, ketika Delilah merayu dan merengek2, akhirnya rahasia kekuatannyapun diberitahukan (perjannjiannya dengan Tuhan pun diabaikan)<br />
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Ok simson punya kekuatan yang besar yang tidak ada seorangpun di dunia yang seperti dia, tapi kalau kita lihat cerita tersebut, perempuan Filistin itu punya kekuatan yang lebih besar dari simson. Dia mampu menggerakkan simson kemanapun, bahkan kalaupun harus membunuh seseorang. Karena seorang perempuan juga, perjanjiannya dengan Tuhan pun diabaikan.<br />
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Aku mengambil kesimpulan seperti ini, sebenarnya perempuan memiliki kekuatan yang jauh lebih besar dari seorang laki-laki. Dia mampu menggerakkan laki2 kemanapun dia mau, bahkan berbuat dosa sekalipun.<br />
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Apa rahasia kekuatan seorang perempuan??? <b>KELEMBUTAN</b><br />
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Bisa bayangkan jika waktu itu perempuan Filistin itu memaksa dengan keras simson untuk mengatakan teka-tekinya. Apa simson akan menjawab? aku rasa simson justru akan meninggalkannya, dan membiarkan rumahnya dibakar orang2 filistin. Andai saja waktu itu delilah memaksa dengan keras (bukan merayu) simson untuk mengatakan rahasia kekuatannya, aku rasa sampai matipun simson tidak akan mengatakannya.<br />
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inget satu hal ini hai perempuan, <b>kekuatan seorang perempuan adalah KELEMBUTAN</b><br />
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andai saja kalian bisa menggunakan senjata yang kalian miliki dengan baik, kalian bisa membuat seorang laki-laki menjadi laki-laki yang melakukan hal yang luar biasa dalam hidupnya, baik dalam kebaikan maupun kejahatan.<br />
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<b>Dalam hubungannya dengan pasangan </b>hehe<br />
Dalam kebaikan, kalian dapat membantu pasangan kalian menggenapi rencana Tuhan yang sempurna dalam hidupnya.<br />
Dalam kejahatan, kalian bisa membuat pasangan kalian jauh dari Tuhan, hidup EGOIS, mengumpulkan harta kekayaan untuk diri sendiri.<br />
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Inilah peranan kalian yang besar di dalam Tuhan, bukan untuk memerintah laki-laki, tapi mendukung dan mendorong laki-laki (dengan KELEMBUTAN) untuk menggenapi rencana Tuhan dalam hidupnya. Biarkan peranan memimpin dengan otoritas (tidak lucu juga kalau laki-laki merayu dan merengek2 ketika memimpin) itu diberikan kepada laki-laki, yang memang seharusnya karena itulah memang yang sebenarnya kehendak Tuhan.<br />
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Ini bukan berarti pria lebih superior dari wanita, sama sekali bukan itu maksudku. Kita lihat bahwa gambaran kehidupan keluarga yang dikehendaki Tuhan adalah sama seperti gambaran hubungan BAPA, Anak, dan Roh Kudus. Sekalipun Bapa yang mempunyai peran dalam perencanaan keselamatan, dan Yesus sebagai pelaksana keselamatan, Roh Kudus yang melanjutkan karya Yesus di dalam hati orang percaya, bukan berarti bahwa Bapa lebih superior dari Yesus ataupun dari Roh Kudus. Hanya saja peran mereka berbeda. Begitu juga hubungan laki-laki dan perempuan terutama dalam hubungan berkeluarga. Laki-laki tidak lebih superior dari perempuan, tetapi peran mereka berbeda.<br />
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Jika masing-masing anggota keluarga tidak mampu menjalankan peran mereka masing-masing sesuai yang dikehendaki Tuhan, maka kemuliaan Tuhan tidak akan berdiam disana. Tanpa kemuliaan Tuhan, tidaklah mungkin ada keluarga yang bahagia. Coba bayangkan kalau dalam pernikahan, yang suami selalu mengalah tidak pernah tegas dalam mengambil keputusan menggunakan otoritas yang Tuhan beri, atau mungkin seorang istri yang selalu mengatur, tidak mau mengikuti keputusan2 suami, tidak mau melayani keluarganya,<br />
bagaimana dampaknya nanti pada keharmonisan Rumah Tangga, apalagi kepada anak-anak.<br />
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Ingat Pria Sejati dan Wanita Bijak adalah Pria dan Wanita yang mampu memainkan peranan yang semula ditetapkan Tuhan dalam hidupnya.<br />
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note: dalam hubungannya dengan otoritas sebagai pemimpin dalam gereja, aku nasehatkan <i><u><b>sebisa mungkin</b></u></i> pemimpin perempuan tidak menggunakan otoritas kepada laki-laki (main perintah), gunakan senjata yang sudah Tuhan berikan kepada kalian yaitu KELEMBUTAN.<br />
Yang aku percaya seorang perempuan yang menggunakan otoritasnya kepada laki-laki secara tidak tepat, membuat suasana rohani menjadi tidak baik<br />
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Feel free to comment disini, saya pasti baca kok<br />
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Aku ijinkan Engkau menghancurkan hatiku skali lagi. Aku ijinkan Engkau melakukan apa yang Kau pandang baik dalam hidupku. Aku ijinkan Engkau melakukan apapun dalam hidupku</div>
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Ajariku bagaimana mengasihi seperti Engkau mengasihi. Ajari aku bagaimana mengasihi dengan kasih Agape. Ajari aku bagaimana mengasihi sekalipun hati ini telah tersakiti berulang-ulang. Ajari aku bagaimana menjadi sepertiMu</div>
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<b>With You my heart is content</b></blockquote>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-60233595894048742332012-04-06T17:21:00.000+07:002013-10-31T14:43:02.440+07:00Quotes of the day (will always be updated)Posting kali ini isinya cuma quote2 yang saya dapat dalam doa dan penyembahanku. Tidak ada tujuan apapun, hanya untuk mengingatkan diriku sendiri, akan pelajaran2 hidup yang Tuhan kasih dalam hidupku.<span class="fullpost">
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Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-25302964790523204562009-12-25T19:36:00.002+07:002009-12-25T19:44:04.155+07:00Astaga.com Lifestyle on the Net<div style="text-align: justify;">Posting ini, hanya sekedar untuk memberikan link balik buat Blogku di Tutorial Membuat Website. Agaknya karena blog ini sudah lama dak update, sekalipun sudah kupasang sidebar link ke blogku di <a href="http://belajarsendiri.com/2009/12/02/astaga-com_lifestyle_on_the_net/">Astaga.com Lifestyle on the Net</a>, tetap saja tidak terindex, baik oleh google maupun yahoo.<br /><br />Baik google bot maupun yahoo bot kelihatannya tidak pernah lagi mengunjungi blog ini akibat jarang diupdate. Semoga aja dengan ini linknya terbaca. OK<br /></div>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-72983240697507051332009-10-01T18:34:00.003+07:002009-10-01T18:44:25.566+07:00Jiwaku merindukanMu<div style="text-align: center;">Jiwaku merindukanMu <br />Ya Allah yang hidup<br />Jiwaku haus kepadaMu <br />Ya Allah yang hidup<br /><br />Jiwaku merindukanMu <br />Ya Allah yang hidup <br />Jiwaku haus kepadaMu<br />Ya Allah yang hidup<br /><br />Kubersyukur kepadaMu<br />Sumber pengharapanku<br />Penolongku Ya Allahku <br />Tiada yang sepertiMu<br /></div><br />Hari ini inilah ungkapan hatiku Tuhan. Sedikit sedih dan kesepian. Kadang-kadang ingin seseorang untuk mengungkapkan perasaan. Aku tahu kamu setia Tuhan. Aku tahu Kamu selalu dengar aku.<br />But sometime I want to talk with someone as human as me. Jesus sometime I wonder how if I have a friend like You when you still in Your Human form.<br />I wonder God, why you take away all my close friend. Each time I have someone that I feel comfortable to talk, just a few month later he/she is always gone away. Lord Jesus, I know that you don't want me to lean myself to anybody, other than You. But isn't it so over?<br /><br />Lord You know me, You always know me. Guide me to the darkest night, by Your might and love as well. Give me strength to walk by faith, stand by You.<br /><br />By a road way in the wilderness He'll lead me<br />River in the desert will I see<br />Heaven and Earth will fade<br />But His words will still remain<br />He will do something new today<br /><br />God will make a way<br />Where there seems to be no way<br />He works in ways, We cannot see<br />He will make a way for me<br /><br />He will be my guide<br />Hold me closely to His side<br />With love and strength for each new day<br />God will make a way<br />God will make a way<br /><br />Lovely God, you're the one that I could ever trust. I give thanks, for everything You have done in my life. Every miracle happened that I haven't ever imagine. Thanks.<br />Thank you for not ever let me begging on someone. Thank you for giving me hope, everytime I feel the roads is closed. Until the last breath of my life. You're still the only one.<br />Thank you Father, thank you.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><blockquote>And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called...</blockquote></div>I am waiting for the time, that you will raise my head. So that I can walk in proud by Your strength.<br /><br />You raise me up so I can stand on mountain<br />You raise me up to walk on stormy seas<br />I am Strong, when I am on Your shoulder<br />You raise me up to more than I can be...<br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /> From Your son<br /> <br /><br /><br /> The one waiting for your promise<br /> to be doneGeorgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-91233668174481510202009-08-10T19:41:00.002+07:002009-08-10T19:49:36.412+07:00Lama dak posting Kangen!!!Sudah 2 bulan lebih dak posting. Kangen juga lihat blogku yang satu ini. Blogku yang lain untuk cari duit, blog ini yang lebih personal tentang siapa aku. Biar ada pengunjung atau dak, tidak ada masalah, yang penting bisa salurin isi hatiku. karena itulah menulis blog ini rasanya tanpa beban, justru menghilangkan bebanku.<br /><br />Kemarin aku sakit kepala pusing dak karuan, hari ini masih ada sisa-sisanya sedikit untunglah sudah lumayan. Semoga aja besok benar-benar sembuh, keliatannya ini gara-gara darah rendahku kumat deh. Oiya sudah lama dak buka blog ini, hari ini aku bersyukur liat postinganku sendiri justru menguatkan aku. Tentang menjadi pecundang atau pemenang. Aku jadi sadar kembali dengan visiku, doakan saja teman-teman, agar aku semakin kuat menanggung beban yang harus aku pikul.<br /><br />Tuhan itu baik<br />Tetap baik<br />Slama-lamanya baik.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-26613422979699511242009-06-08T19:50:00.007+07:002013-10-31T14:42:34.628+07:00Sebelum Kamu Mengeluh<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
Hari ini sebelum kamu mengatakan kata-kata yang tidak baik, Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak dapat berbicara sama sekali. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang rasa dari makananmu, Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak punya apapun untuk dimakan. </div>
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Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang suami atau istri anda. Pikirkan tentang seseorang yang memohon kepada Tuhan untuk diberikan teman hidup.</div>
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<br /><br /><br /> </span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-69204930997682710002009-05-12T21:51:00.008+07:002009-05-12T23:38:17.887+07:00Software Filter Situs Porno pun ditembus<div style="text-align: justify;">Keberadaan situs porno sekarang semakin merambah luas. Bagi beberapa orang mungkin sudah hal yang lazim jika waktu browsing menemukan banyak gambar porno, baik pop up atau tidak. Yang menjadi masalah ialah jika situs porno tersebut dibuka oleh anak-anak anda, di rumah anda sendiri. Dilema memang, sebagai orang tua kita berusaha menyediakan internet di rumah agar anak dapat belajar lebih banyak namun sayangnya mereka justru belajar sesuatu yang justru akan menghancurkan masa depan mereka.<br /></div><span class="fullpost"><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fullpost">Ah terlalu serius kata-katanya! Kenapa sih aku bahas masalah ini, karena masalah ini aku alami juga. Ketika aku putusin untuk memasang internet di rumah, aku berharap aku dapat belajar banyak tentang banyak hal, termasuk belajar dapat duit dari internet (sampai akhirnya bisa buka <a href="http://www.malltotal.com/">toko online</a>). Sayangnya banyak tawaran di internet yang menggoda. aku juga laki-laki, sulit untuk mengontrol pikiranku menjauhi hal-hal yang porno yang bisa diakses dengan mudah. Cara paling tepat memang kayak Yusuf, melarikan diri dari dosa, cuma untuk masalah internet memang rada sulit, karena internet adalah kebutuhanku baik untuk kerja serta hubungan dengan dunia luar.</div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Apa yang aku lakukan? Aku pasang software filter situs porno. Sampai sekarang aku masih pakai Net Dog Porn Filter. Menurut saya software tersebut cukup aman, terutama kalau passwordnya kamu dak tahu. Memang waktu aku pasang, aku tentukan sendiri passwordnya, jadi masih bisa kalo tergoda buka yang tidak-tidak. Paling tidak software itu mencegah aku untuk tidak buka yang porno-porno, karena mengingatkan komitmenku untuk tidak melihat lagi pornografi. Sekarang sudah aman, passwordnya aku lupa!<br><br />Software ini cukup bagus karena bisa memblok site-site ataupun gambar-gambar dengan keyword yang berbau pornografi (tau sendirilah), jadi sekalipun kamu buka website yang tidak ada keyword pornografi namun jika ada gambar-gambar yang diambil dari server situs porno maka gambar tersebut itu tidak akan ditampilkan, sementara situsnyapun masih bisa dibuka. Misal cracks.am gambar pornonya tidak akan terlihat namun sitenya masih dapat dibuka. Jadi promosi ni! :O</div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Masalahnya akhir-akhir ini aku heran, tidak sengaja aku masuk website porno dari referensi website lain. Biasanya websitenya tidak bisa dimasuki, gambarnyapun biasanya tidak bisa diakses, namun kali ini websitenya bisa dimasuki. Keliatannya situs pornonya tidak menembak keyword porno sama sekali, bahkan nama domainnya bukan nama domain yang porno sama sekali. Hari ini aku coba masuk adminnya net dog porn filter buat nambah site porno tadi biar dak bisa dibuka, eh passwordnya lupa. Sekarang jadilah komputerku komputer teraman, sekalipun masi ada beberapa situs porno bisa kebuka yang aku bilang tidak nembak keyword porno sama sekali.<br /></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-14891808998090430122009-05-05T13:07:00.004+07:002009-05-05T14:05:41.984+07:00You are The Love of My LifeIt's one of my favourite song. This song wants to express our love to our God. That He will be the one and everything. Its very romantic song, though it has been sung by different people in all the world, still a beautiful song to listen . . .<br />You can listen to this song <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w7m0KTFFDRs">here</a><br /><br /><br />You are the love of my life<br />You are the hope that I cling to<br />You mean more than this world to me<br />I wouldn’t trade you for silver or gold<br />I wouldn’t trade you for riches untold<br />You are, you are my everything<br /><br /><span class="fullpost"><br /><br />Bait Pertama<br /><br />I wouldn’t take one step without you<br />I could never go on<br />I couldn’t live one day without you<br />I don’t have the strength<br />To make it on my own<br /><br />Bait Kedua<br /><br />Until the world stops turning<br />Until the stars fade from the sky<br />Until the sun stops rising<br />I need you in my life<br />And here’s the reason why<br /><br /><br /> </span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-53763468440916731052009-05-01T14:29:00.004+07:002013-10-31T14:38:46.626+07:00Menjadi Pahlawan atau Pecundang<div style="text-align: justify;">
Aku tahu judulnya terkesan rada aneh. Tapi agaknya itulah yang Tuhan ingatkan untuk aku hari ini. Dak tahu kenapa hari ini aku terbangun dengan hati yang berat. Aku merasa seakan aku sendirian, dak ada yang benar-benar care sama aku. Mungkin juga bisa dibilang karena aku barusan ada masalah dengan kakak rohaniku, aku kira sih sudah beres masalahnya. Entah kenapa kemaren aku merasa dak diacuhin. Aku dak tertarik untuk cerita detailnya. . . nanti banyak yang cari2 siapa orangnya, kan repot. Lepas dari itu aku merasa hari-hari ini setelah aku lulus dari kuliahku, aku harus berjuang sendiri memperjuangkan visiku sendiri tanpa teman disampingku.</div>
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<span class="fullpost">Dulu ketika masih kuliah semangat melayani Tuhan, anak2 UK2 (UKM Kristen di kampusku) sering kumpul bareng, kita bicarain pelayanan ke depan, bagaimana cara menjangkau jiwa, membawa mereka mengenal Tuhan Yesus yang sejati. Tapi hari-hari ini aku merasa kita seperti berjalan sendiri-sendiri, kita tetap pelayanan bareng karena akhirnya terbentuk CMC (gereja yang kita dirikan bersama atas janji Tuhan) namun roh kita seakan-akan tidak seperti dulu. Dulu begitu mudahnya kita bergandengan tangan demi kebangunan rohani, sekarang kita mulai berjalan sendiri-sendiri, komunikasipun jarang, berbicara "heart to heart" seperti dulu hampir dak pernah. Tadi pagi cukup stress aku merenungkan hal ini, (padahal biasanya sudah jarang melankolik seperti ini), mau doapun males banget. Aku tiduran sampe jam 11 siangan, sampe akhirnya jam 11 aku bangun baca Alkitab, setelah itu doa. </span></div>
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Tuhan cuma ingetin satu hal sama aku. Kamu tahu dulu ketika aku di dunia, juga tidak ada yang mengerti aku. Tuhan punya 12 murid tapi Dia bilang tidak ada yang mengerti Dia, Aneh ya!! Tapi itu yang Tuhan bilang. Tuhan Yesus memang punya 3 murid yang sangat dekat dengan Dia -Petrus, Yakobus, Yohanes-, tapi merekapun tidak benar-benar mengerti hatinya Yesus. </div>
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<br /><br /></span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-14458800446782949102009-04-30T20:25:00.002+07:002009-04-30T20:36:59.091+07:00Websiteku Akhirnya Jadi Juga!Sudah hampir 1 bulan berhenti ngeblog. Maklumlah masih dalam perintisan website baru. Aku sedang rintis sebuah website baru nih. Temen-temen kalo lewat mampir ya di <a href="http://www.malltotal.com">website baruku</a>. Di website ini aku jualan macam-macam kategori produk nih, kalo temen-temen cari notebook hubungi aku aja ya.<br /><br />Beberapa kategori:<br />- notebook<br />- flashdisk<br />- mesin absensi sidik jari<br />- aksesoris lucu<br />- modem usb<br />- furniture<br />macem-macem deh jangan lupa mampir ya.<br />Oiya ni link blogku yang lain, <a href="http://blog.malltotal.com">mampir juga donk</a>.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-79459810705997146782009-03-10T19:43:00.002+07:002009-03-10T20:23:08.844+07:00TABUT PERJANJIANTabut Perjanjian biasa juga disebut sebagai "Tabut Tuhan","Tabut Allah","Tabut Perjanjian Tuhan" (Ul 10:8) dan "Tabut Kesaksian". Tabut ini berbentuk kotak empat persegi panjang yang terbuat dari kayu penaga, dengan ukuran kurang lebih 1.22 m x 76cm x 76cm. Seluruh tabut itu dibungkus dengan emas dan diangkut dengan tongkat kayu yang dimasukkan pada lubang gelang-gelang yang terdapat pada keempat sudutnya. Tutup tabut atau yang dikenal dengan "Tutup Perdamaian" terbuat dari emas dan pada kedua ujungnya ditempatkan kerub yang saling berhadapan dengan sayap terentang.<br /><br />Isi dari tabut perjanjian adalah:<br /><ol><li>Dua loh batu yang berisi sepuluh hukum (Kel 25:16,21; Kel 40:20; Ul 10:1-5)</li><li>Buli-buli berisi manna serta</li><li>Tongkat Harun (Ibrani 9:4-5)</li></ol>Tabut ini juga dipakai sebagai sarana pertemuan di dalam tempat kudus dimana Tuhan menyatakan kehendaknya kepada hambaNya Musa (Kel 25:22; 30:36), Harun (Im 16:2), Yosua (Yos 7:6). Tabut Allah melambangkan kehadiranNya untuk menuntun umatNya. tabut ini dibuat di Sinai oleh Bezaleel sesuai pola atau ketentuan yang diberikan Musa (Kel 25:8). Tabut yang menyimpan sepuluh hukum ini memegang peranan penting dalam peristiwa penyeberangan sungai Yordan (Yos 3-4), Kejatuhan Yerikho (Yos 6) dan pada upacara di Gunung Ebal (Yos 8:30)<br /><br /><ul><li>Keseluruhan Tabut itu menyimbolkan Kehadiran Allah di tengah umatNya (1 Sam 4:3-22;5:1-11;7:1-2; 2 Sam 6:2-17; 2 Taw 5:1-10)</li><li>Loh Batu yang berisi hukum Allah ditempatkan didalamnya untuk selalu mengingatkan perjanjian antara Allah dengan orang Israel.</li><li>Manna menyimbolkan "roti" Allah yang turun dari Surga (Kel 16:33;Yoh 6:48-51;Ibrani 9:4)</li><li>Tongkat Harun dimasukkan kemudian sebagai kesaksian bagi Israel atas keimaman yang ditetapkan / dipilih oleh Allah (Bil 17:10)<br /></li></ul>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-90524340822919889962009-03-07T11:39:00.003+07:002009-03-07T12:11:23.801+07:00000webhost is SCAMI feel regret to promote 000webhost as a free, reliable web hosting. Today after I do a web surf on the internet, I've found very bad critics on affiliate program 000webhost made. I've already an affiliate of 000webhost, in fact, I even make a website to promote this affiliate program, as you can see <a href="http://www.webhtml.co.cc/">here</a>. I've already made 2 signed up on this program, but now I plan not to promote this site again, because what I've read just now.<br /><br />Definitely, 000webhost has a very good feature as a free web hosting, but I don't like the way it cheat people. 000webhost promising $5 dollar for every sign up we made as an affiliate. And it must wait until it reached $100, as a limit for a payment process. But for what I've read, there is a lot of people that has been reached $100 and even $300 that never get payed a single time. <span style="font-weight: bold;">If this company cheat people, how can it be a best free web hosting???</span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-31660859774738254492009-03-04T13:48:00.005+07:002009-03-04T15:51:26.925+07:00Alasan Mengapa Tuhan Memakai Perempuan Berkhotbah<div style="text-align: justify;">Kemarin saya sempat berbincang dengan seorang teman (perempuan tentunya) masalah topik ini. Waktu itu teman saya bilang kenapa sih kok yang jadi pelayan perjamuan harus laki-laki, Saya nyeletuk, "ya, harus, kan laki-laki adalah gambaran kemuliaan Kristus, sedangkan perempuan gambaran kemuliaan laki-laki." 2 teman perempuan saya di bangku belakang berteriak, "ya dak bisa gitu, itukan topiknya lain." Saya jawab, "Ya memang itu yang dimaksud di Alkitab." Akhirnya salah satu teman perempuan saya itu bilang, "ya itu memang benar, tapi bukan hanya itu." Agaknya memang topik ini susah diterima perempuan.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Maksud saya mengatakan hal itu, bukan untuk mendiskreditkan atau meremehkan perempuan, namun agaknya perkataan saya cukup menyinggung mereka. Kalau kalian teliti di Alkitab, kalian akan tahu kalau sebenarnya laki-laki mempunyai peran spesial yang tidak dimiliki seorang perempuan yaitu sebagai imam. Namun bukan berarti perempuan tidak punya peran spesial. Perempuan punya peran spesial mereka sendiri, teman perempuan saya tadi lebih suka menyebutnya sebagai "Hatinya ALLAH". Nanti biar aku coba minta teman saya bahas tentang ini.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Jika kalian kritis, kalian akan merasa aneh, lantas kenapa kok Tuhan mengijinkan perempuan berkhotbah, buat mujizat. Saya pun sering menanyakan hal yang sama. Jawabannya ialah karena para laki-laki seringkali menolak untuk dipanggil Tuhan.<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family:courier new;"><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;">Luk 19:40 Jawab-Nya: "Aku berkata kepadamu: Jika mereka ini diam, maka batu ini akan berteriak."</span><br /><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;">Jika tidak ada laki-laki yang mau dipakai Tuhan maka dia akan memakai perempuan yang hidupnya diserahkan kepada Tuhan. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Tuhan cari orang yang mau bukan yang mampu</span>. Bahkan seorang perempuanpun bisa Tuhan pakai untuk memimpin peperangan (Debora) hanya karena seorang laki-laki yang takut untuk berperang (Barak).<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family:courier new;">Hakim-hakim</span><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;">4:8 Jawab Barak kepada Debora: "Jika engkau turut maju akupun maju, tetapi jika engkau tidak turut maju akupun tidak maju." </span><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;">4:9 Kata Debora: "Baik, aku turut! Hanya, engkau tidak akan mendapat kehormatan dalam perjalanan yang engkau lakukan ini, sebab TUHAN akan menyerahkan Sisera ke dalam tangan seorang perempuan." Lalu Debora bangun berdiri dan pergi bersama-sama dengan Barak ke Kedesh.</span><br /></div><br />Entah kalian laki-laki atau perempuan, namun jika kalian memberikan diri kalian, untuk dipakai Tuhan, maka Tuhan pasti akan pakai kalian.<br /><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;"></span></div> </div>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-90033571894377682702009-03-04T11:28:00.003+07:002009-03-04T13:47:54.770+07:00Faith<a href="http://laurenciasdiary.blogspot.com/2009/03/salah-lagi-salah-lagi.html">taken from</a><br /><br />Faith isn't anything you can see;<br />It isn't anything you can touch.<br />But you can feel it in your heart.<br />Faith is what keeps you trying<br />When others would have given up.<br />It keeps you believing in<br />The goodness of others<br />And helps you find it.<br /><br />Faith is trusting in a power<br />Greater than yourself<br />And knowing that whatever happens,<br />This power will carry you through anything.<br />It is believing in yourself<br />And having courage<br />To stand up for what you believe in.<br /><br />Faith is:<br />Peace in the midst of a storm,<br />Determination in the midst<br />Of adversity,<br />And safety in the midst of trouble.<br />For nothing can touch a soul<br />That is protected by faith.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-58754876617716396032009-03-04T10:37:00.003+07:002009-03-05T17:35:06.157+07:00Blogku Tidak Tampil di Google Search EngineAneh ya. Aku sudah buat blog ini kurang lebih 2 bulan yang lalu. Namun sampai sekarang blogku masih belum terindeks sama google. Temenku juga buat blog di blogspot juga sudah lama, tapi masi belum terindeks juga. Apa yang terjadi sama mbah google, produk sendiri kok tambah dak dipasarkan?<br /><br />Blog ini sudah saya daftarkan di <a href="http://www.google.com/addurl/?continue=/addurl">add sitenya google</a> sudah 2 bulan yang lalu. Kurang lebih 1 minggu yang lalu sudah saya ping di <a href="http://blogsearch.google.com/ping">Google Blog Search</a>. Hasilnya masih nihil. Aneh, masa mbah google sudah terlalu tua sampe pikun lupa barang sendiri. Ada yang bisa kasih masukan dak?<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">sudah beres, sudah terindeks, dak tau kok bisa delay selama itu</span>Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2644359999382568067.post-48345651356726990852009-02-27T22:10:00.005+07:002009-02-27T23:35:07.769+07:00Enaknya Gunakan Barang BajakanBaru satu minggu aku buka rental VCD dan DVD original. Jujur bagi aku pribadi pendapatannya jauh dibawah yang kubayangkan, maklum posisinya memang kurang strategis (masuk dalam perumahan). Sempat stress juga sudah keluar dana jutaan, hasilnya terlalu sedikit menurutku. Dak bisa tarik sewa yang mahal karena kalangan perumahan menengah ke bawah, apalagi ada saingan yang punya koleksi yang jauh lebih banyak, menyewakan cuma Rp. 2500. Sebagai orang yang baru pindah dan baru buka dengan koleksi yang jauh lebih sedikit pula mana berani tarik harga mahal. Paling stress adalah karena ini sudah menguras hampir semua tabunganku, tinggal beberapa ratus ribu saja. Sempat kepikiran juga mau sewain VCD, DVD bajakan saja, karena duitku tak cukup buat beli yang ori. Gimana coba, kalau usaha rental uangnya dak muter mana bisa beli yang ori pula.<br /><br />Aku bahkan sudah kontak penjual dari internet mau pesen VCD, DVD bajakan. Orangnya janji gambar dan suara jernih karena copy ori. Aku pikir pasti kembali ini modalku, toh ya dak mengecewakan orang gambar dan suara bagus. Sempat takut juga sih, waduh ini kalo sampai digerebek wah bisa ruwet masalahnya. Tapi ya itulah kepikiran duit bisa lupa segalanya. Untungnya tadi waktu doa, diingetin Tuhan, "Kamu itu apa-apaan, katanya percaya sama Aku kok macem-macem." Diingetin ama janji Tuhan buat aku secara pribadi di wahyu 3 ". . . Aku tahu bahwa kekuatanmu tidak seberapa, namun Engkau menuruti firmanKu dan tidak menyangkal namaku. Lihat Aku telah membukakan pintu bagimu yang tidak dapat ditutup oleh seorangpun. . . " Tuhan bilang,"Itu namanya bukan tekun menantikan Aku". Untunglah segera tersadar dan bangun dari mimpi "uang banyak". Puih gila andai saja aku tabrak terus entah jadi apa janji Tuhan dalam hidupku.<br /><br />Satu yang pasti aku pelajari jadi orang kristen dak mudah, sementara orang lain bisa tertawa, sikut sana, sikut sini, mengandalkan kekuatannya sendiri (segala sesuatu halal demi uang). Orang kristen harus belajar buat percaya ama Tuhannya (Put trust on God). Sedikit kecewa? Ya. Karena kalau aku ambil VCD, DVD yang bajakan itu mungkin modalku sudah balek bahkan berlipat-lipat. Tapi sudah lah mending percaya saja kalau Tuhan tahu yang terbaik.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375155927933568207noreply@blogger.com0